I think that you did the right thing. Coming from not-quite-the-other-side-of-the-fence, i.e. I am best friends with one of my ex's, and that sometimes makes his girlfriends uncomfortable. You don't really know how she feels or where she's coming from, so I don't think that telling her off is a good idea, because I would be extremely offended by something like that. Anyway. Yes, you did the right thing.

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I see your fantasy... you want to make it a reality

Are you in the mood to be subdued

You see these shackles
Baby I’m your slave
I’ll let you whip me if I misbehave

Tie me to the bedpost

I like it rough
cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all