Speaking as a mere male here, I think you did the right thing... far better to make it clear now.

Its probably better in the long term. At least yours is a reasonably conventional one, mine isnt.. its a long distance one, and with frequent visits. Actually, a fellow Pixian (she'll know when she reads this) tried to tell me off for flirting. I asked my girl and she said she'd be annoyed if I didn't! As long as she gets her share, she isn't too bothered what i do here. In fact I may persuade her to join to meet you all so you can hear for yourself!

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