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So guess what. I met this chick that showed interest in me and it took me all of one hour to figure out she was a total asshole. I totally can pick them eh.

rzande1 it takes some of us years to realize someone is an asshole. Don't be down, be grateful. You didn't waste an hour, you saved yourself a couple of years and alimony payments:D

No kidding. It takes me weeks to figure that out. If even then.

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Originally Posted by FussyPucker

So what do you need to fix the problem? Here's what I had to fix me:
A wonderful doctor who was very sympathetic
Seroxat (known as Paxil in the US)
Lilith (Who suggested I might have social anxiety and whipped me until I went to see a doc THANK YOU lil! :x: )
and Loulabelle who wasn't turned off by the thought of a potential boyfriend with what is to all intents and purposes is a mental illness.

What would I have if I didn’t make the changes??
Well I got made redundant from my job the day I started on Seroxat I’m sure a big contributing factor was the time I refused to work for a couple of days in an office a couple of hundred miles away from my comfortable office.
Living with my parents feeling safe and never going out spending all my money and time on computers so I could chat to people.
Generally being miserable!

What is my life like because I made the changes?
I’ve been through a couple of jobs got myself a great job after being more comfortable and confident in interviews (actually got offered 3).
I’ve been to Italy twice to appear in small movies!
I’ve moved out of my parents house to live with Lou 90 miles away from “home”
3years down the line and Lou n I are now married and went all the way to Bali to do it!!

*smiling and crying*

Oh babes....I love you. xxx

rzande1 - listen to this man....he could help you a lot. x

Well still nothing at all. I guess I am not cut out for this game of manipulation and bad intentions.

Just shows you are a person of principle and will not be taken advantage of. Keep at it - and don't be in too much of a hurry. Good things happen to those that wait. Don't rush into any situation just cuz you feel like you need to be in a hurry!

I just dont get how all these total MORONS of guys have these girlfriends that fall all over for them and yet I am almost the perfect bf (as i have been described) and yet my ex cheated on me after 14 months.

P.S. I asked this chick out from one of my classes today. Still havent got a reply. That was an hour and a half ago. :(

Because most morons are confident and don't stand around whinging that their lovelife stinks....they get out there and do something about it

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Originally Posted by rzande1

up to 14 hours now.

Speaking from experience, if you're counting the time, you're just going to drive yourself nuts. You've asked, you've done what you can and it's now in her court.

Well it is resolved. Her response.....to not respond at all!?!?!?!
Yes....I quit LOL.

Maybe you can take up a hobby. It will make those 14 hour wait-a-thons pass by more pleasurably.

I did forget to mention that it's always possible that you don't have any more serious a problem than just being someone who loves to moan about how unpopular you are with the ladies. If you do spend all your time whinging about this stuff you're not going to get anywhere and you'll rapidly lose the support of people who'll get sick of hearing about it.

I am starting to think this is all a joke to some of you.