Amazingly I watched a movie about this very topic a bit ago....

It was called Grownups

Starring : John Stamos,Daniel Landon, Meredith Salanger, Tara Westwood.

Here is the details:

Steve (John Stamos) and Eric are average guys living average lives with their average wives in their home town of Freehold, New Jersey. Now, in their early 30s, they fear settling into the routine of life in the suburbs. Both they and their wives Ami and Claire are dealing with the reality that they are no longer watching MTV, but instead find themselves flipping channels to VH1. They have become grownups. Or at least they are supposed to be. But all four are having trouble with this concept and yearn for something, anything, that will break them from utter ennui. When Eric jokes about about free love and wife swapping, his friends are only too eager to give it a try....

It came out in 2001 and I found it at Blockbuster...

Maybe watching this might help.


But on a personal note if my husband would have mentioned this to me when we were married I would have been too worried that he was testing me and would fear the wrath of him and his bruised ego.

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I beleive in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve, and I beleive in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days. Kevin Costner/Bull Duram

"Your body as well as mine has needs. This is juat a little foreplay to highten our desire for each other. If we play out the game of love to it's natural conclusion, you'll experience fulfillment. Give yourself up to me and I'll guide you along the path to pareadise. Together we will be like fire and ice, love and hate, life and death." Virginia Henley

WANTED: a moment when you kiss someone and eveything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and this person and you relize that he is the only person your suppose to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this amazing gift. You want to laugh and you want to cry. Cause you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared it will all go away at the same time.

Just doesn't sound right. Drugging and tricking your best friend and lover seems like the wrong thing to do for me. I would have to discuss it first and honestly explore our feelings and see if I could kindle her interest. Be sure you want this before you move ahead. There just might be unintended consequences that leave you with regret. Best of luck!

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours

Just say to the woman, "I just read Fred's Xmas list and you were #3" or words to the effect.

She'll either become curious or remind you that Death Valley'll freeze over first.

Still easier than "Hide the Carving knife".

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