I have always hated marathon sex sessions, frankly. A series over the course of the day is better, and I have multiple orgasms per day, only during actual sexual activity can I have multiples, and I have them in a series (I call them aftershocks ), and then I'm done. If the guy has to keep going much past that, I get to a point where I'm bored and just trying to get him off so I can quit. That's a really yucky feeling.

I don't understand the attraction, frankly. Had an ex that just wanted to do oral on me for... hours. I no longer have any desire for oral at all. Seriously, each person is different. If you are satisfied, why do you need something that makes other people happy? Where's the guarantee it will make you happy?

Some women want to fuck for hours. I find that boring, irritating, and unsatisfying. Some women need to orgasm multiple times. Some are perfectly satisfied with once. Who are you worried about performing for? You are certainly not going to orgasm multiple times if you are expected to, that's not him caring about your needs, that's him expecting you to validate him as a man with your body- like it or not.

Sex is a natural, fun thing. Lose your expectations and prohibitions regarding it. Allow your body to guide you, it is the organ of your sexual pleasure, the guage by which to test it. Follow its guidance. Let it tell you when it is content and finished. Pushing it past that becomes performance, which involves expectation, which closes your mind and creates resentment. Over time, that resentment will remove the pleasure.

You are happy, you feel satiated and content, why fool with that??

WOW thank you!

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This isn't very clear, I'm sorry. What I mean to say is, I prefer to have several sexual encounters with my partner, thoughout the day. I may orgasm each time, but not usually multiples during that sexual encounter. When I do have multiples, it is usually as a series that go like "aftershocks" and then I am done... I don't have sex, orgasm, have more sex, orgasm again, have more sex, orgasm again.

Each person is unique, only your body can tell you when YOU are pleased and satiated. Listen to your body, love it, appreciate it. Honor the message it is sending to you, by listening to it.

BUMP!!!

so how are you ladies doing on the multiple orgasm front these days?

**thud**

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney

BTDT!

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Lots of people talk and few of them know, soul of a woman was created below

I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours

man o man..........

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Certainly if you would like to experience having multiples, everybody's suggestions would be worth a try. But don't think there is anything wrong with you if your body is usually happy with one fantastic one. Many women fall into that category, and it's just as normal as the multiples are for others. Just like some women ejaculate and some don't; both are perfectly fine.

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Communication is the key.

Thank you again!

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