I'm sorry if it makes me seem shallow, but there is something that, when discovered, would make me hesitate to pursue a relationship. I can't honestly say that knowing about it in advance would make any difference either. But then again, never say never. It's much easier to reject something as a part when you haven't become entertwined in the heart and mind of the person that part is attached to.

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an ass tulip.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.