But sometimes milktoast I wonder if we don't require TOO much from each other....

sometimes people NEED to be able to be silly, sexual or flirt with other people.

I just don't think everyone has or MUST have the same needs/wants...and we all need to recognize that and love our partners just the same. After all, they ARE with us.

I think it's probably a personality difference...

I also don't know enough about Jen to say whether she's a prude or not so no, I wasn't meaning her.

And please, there isn't anything WRONG with being modest *another word for prude* but I still think people are individuals in how they feel about this sort of thing and I wouldn't try to change how my husband feels about this stuff nor will I change how I feel about it. We need to allow each other to be WHO we are...which more often than not makes it worth hanging in there.

Nutworld loves his wife...that is a fact.