
06-07-2004, 03:32 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: Texas
Posts: 545
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Friends with Benefits then Become Lovers?
So hey I was talkign the other day with this girl at work and she was telling me how she was just sick and tired of dating a guy around a few times only to find out that not only does it not go anywhere steamy, but he just winds up meeting some other girl and she is left alone and horny.
Her solution is that leatly she is just finding a guy she likes and jsut randomly has sex with him, but then well he just won't commit.
I confesed that I hve the same problem with women, and that the two times I had a serious relationship were both were with girls that I had started out being a freind with benefits and then wound up being their boyfirend and eventually fiancee in the case with my last gf. I just fell in love with them becuase after the sex I realized there was jsut a whole lot more to the relationship.
She was like see that's what I would love to happen, but she was told that love never happens that way. I said well I thought so until it happend to me twice.
So anyone else have a friend with benefits become lovers?
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Well sir that seems to be someone else's problem.
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