Hi guys,

New to this group ( or anything like this ). Have a predicament. I am a 30 something male and have been married to my wife for 10 years now. We adopted a baby boy who is now 2. Now I know this may be a common thing with new parents in all but my sex life is in the toilet. Frequency has gone down tremendously..too embarrased to be more specific then that. When we do have sex...its kind of half hearted. It seems I do all the work. Basically, I give her oral until she cums and then we have intercourse, usually missionary position and usually in our bedroom...........boring.

I am willing to do anything to please her sexually but she needs to return the favor. We talk about trying something new but that all it ever is...just talk. We watch porn on occasion, she dresses up, etc. but I want a little more spice ie. anal, role play, hell even doggie style once in awhile would be an improvement. I never get oral unless she knows she will be getting right back. It would be great if she would whip out my penis while i was driving my car and just sucked a load out of me ( swallowing, another thing she doesn't do).

I consider myself a good looking guy( I have been told I look like Kurt Russell) and my wife is a beatiful redhead with a good body. We should be shagging like rabbits. Maybe she is not interested in me anymore. Maybe she is cheating on me. I still love my wife but this problem is keeping us apart. Anyway, sorry to dampen the mood. Any suggestions or similar experiences would help. thanks ahead of time.