I have to admit she loved it I mean we still have sex as much as possible but when I am not "upto" it then I just pop the strapon to pleasure her or just snuggle into my fave spot between her legs and lick my way to her pleasure but like sugarsprinkles says as long as you try and care about the happiness and needs of your lady then an erection isnt the be all and end all and beleive me I speak from experience that is soooo true

sprinkles you have to try and persuade your husband that that isnt the only way to make you happy you are a sexy lady and need to be pleasured who knows maybe it will get him hot to pleasure you I know I get hot making my girl excited and trying new things all the time