Ok, First off I would like to say Hi to everyone, this is my first post here, i have been lurking for a while but never posted till today. Also this is going to be a long post, sorry. Anyways onto the point.

I Broke up with my ex 1 month and a half ago. I was with her for 3 years and was planning on getting married to her, i had never loved anyone more than i loved her. To make a long story short she cheated on me and i left her. I have never been hurt that bad in my life, it took my 2 best friends days to get me back together and keep me from doing anyhting stupid(like killing or doing great bodily harm to my ex) That said, i met a new girl and things are going very well i just have a few concerns i want to voice and get your peoples opinions on.

First off, Things are moving fast, very fast, I told her at the begining that she will be setting the pace of the relationship because of my recent breakup and i did not trust myself to set the pace because im on the rebound. She is taking things fast, im ok with this it just worries me a bit because part of me is telling me not to get so attached again because it will be that much easyer for her to hurt me the more i get attached. Which really is not fair to her, she is a nice girl and is probably not planning on fucking me over like my ex. However having been badly burned once i am very hesitant and find myself fighting my feelings towards her.

Also i find myself falling for her faster than i have fallen for anyone before, i cant help it, im not trying to, im trying to stop it but i cant. The thing is she told me she loved me first and feels just as strongly about me as i do about her. Im unsure what to do about this, I love her, i think, im pretty darn sure i do but i keep having doubts that perhaps i feel this way because of the recent breakup and this is just me trying to replace what i had for 3 years. Honestly i dont know if that is the case or not, but i do feel something for her and it feel alot like love.

The sex is awesome, the best sex i have ever had(i have had 10 partners before her, i have been around the block). The thing is, she was not a virgin, she has had 3 guys but she has never had a orgasm before. I gave her her first one(and have the ripped up lower back to prove it, i hate long nails) and i am now wondering if perhaps she is telling me she loves me just because of the sex, she used to hate sex from what her friends and she tells me and now she wants is 3,4,5 or more times a day(she has had more sex with me in the last 3 weeks than the rest of her life combined). Im wondering if this is effecting her judgement. What do you guys think?

Our relationship is very open, i am being totaly honest with her, she knows all the details of the breakup and the problems im having because of it. And i have discussed the above topics with her in detail. I want outside opinions. Thanks for listening guys, take care.

Nathan

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