When you're decorating the tree, what order to you put things on?

I grew up thinking it was supposed to be: Lights, then ornaments, then garland

Last night, Mrs. WI claimed the garland was supposed to be put on BEFORE the ornaments. And that everyone knows that! Mind you...we've been married 22 years and we're just now having this conversation.

So what's the right order?

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