NO MEN. No photo required. Not for money. If you are seeking a GQ-type individual with extremely good looks please read other ads. I am not willing to share a photo within the first few emails as I am insecure with my looks and do not like myself. If you are extremely self-centered, selfish, want everything your way or on your complete and total terms and conditions then please read other ads. You must be extremely affectionate, loving and caring, kind and considerate, clean, no smoking, no illegal drugs whatsoever, no STD's ever, no exceptions. SWM, turned 49 on July 5, never married, no children seeking extremely affectionate female, any race, clean, healthy, no drugs, no STD's, BBW OK for both giving and receiving sensual, affectionate erotic over-the-lap bare bottom hand spankings with lots of massages. Must enjoy both giving and receiving sensual, erotic & affectionate hand spankings. Nothing extremely hard or violent. Hand spankings preferred. Both giving and receiving a must. Red bottom OK and preferred and you can spank somewhat hard and/or enjoyable but not heavy bruising or a great deal of non-sensual, erotic pain. Verbal scolding, role play a plus. I am inexperienced so it is OK if you are inexperienced too and we can explore together. Please be upbeat and have a positive attitude and outlook and be intuitive. Please do NOT be mean nor physically nor emotionally abusive. Please value what the person has to offer from within rather than what they look like. Seeking a mutually pleasurable association. Please be clean, healthy, no STD's, no smoking, church-going and/or spiritual a plus. Must be extremely affectionate, clean, healthy, unattached, loving and caring. You may email me directly at [email protected]. I live in Orange County, CA.