I recieved an invitation to my ex-wife's oldest daughter's graduation, next weekend. My ex wife and I are getting along fine, and so there are no "problems" there, but while her oldest daughter is the one who caused alot of the strife in our marriage, the daughter and I can be in the same room and be civil to each other these days. That wasn't necessarily the case in the past.

Since I recieved an invitation, what would be appropriate as a gift? Just a card? I certainly feel no need to give more of a gift than that, but is that just be being petty?

I have to work that day so I won't attend the party, even though I recieved an invitation.

Anyone got any good suggestions?