Never paid for it (tempting at the moment though!!!!) but have been offered payment.

Shortly after i split with an ex, we were still very good friends and were still very attracted to each other. We'd already had one indiscretion since splitting and he was keen to continue with the sex on a semi-regular basis. I said 'no' and he started to try to persuade me. We were both students at the time and he offered to pay. I thought long and hard about it because i would be getting money for having good sex with a guy i was attracted to, but in the end i felt that he might use it as some kind of 'moral weapon' against me. I was worried that if our relationship became less than friendly in the future (which it did!) it may be used against me.

Talk about grey areas! If someone had told me before that i'd even entertain the idea of sex for money one day, i'd have laughed them out of the place. Just shows that you never know what you'll do until you're in the situation. . . . and it is rather a compliment that a guy wants you so badly they'll pay!!!!!!!

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