What do you want from us here?

Do you want our sympathy and to feel sorry for you? You have posted two threads and there has been some darn good advise sent your way, but you are not hearing any of it.

Why is that? Could it be your too wrapped up in bitterness and feeling sorry for yourself? Are you in too much pain to realize what is being offered to you? No one here is going to call your ex names or tell you that she is not worthy of you.

To me it seems this is what you want. We all need validation, but this is not the way to find it for it must come from within you. You must learn to be comfortable in your own skin. You must feel good about yourself because of who you are, not because you feel your a guy that was a great boyfriend and now has been shit on.

It is you who must seek the remedy for your feelings of low self esteem and if your feeling as bad as you relay here, then maybe it should be done through some time and patience along with some professional help.

lPeople hurt people everyday. That's life and although it sucks, it is how we learn to deal with life and adapt to adversity when it arises.

No one here has a magic word to make things right for you. Just remember this....a person must feel good about themselves before they are any good for another in a relationship. You both have to be on equal footing and one partner cannot bloom in the shadow of another.

You really should try to talk to someone face to face who is qualified to help you sort out why you feel the way you do.

...just my two cents and goodluck