Ok, I go to a huge university in chicago. Here is the thing. I commute there and basically have no life. Had one gf about one year and three months ago that was a total disaster even though we lasted for over a year. So yea my problem is I am incredibly shy. Basically if I was given the option to jump out a 5th floor window or talk to a chick I would take the window. I need advice!!! I am dying here. Please help.