
06-14-2002, 10:55 AM
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Not liking men but liking 3-somes
I am wondering if any other men out there have this problem (Ladies your input is welcome as well). I think of myself as very hetro and I dont find men the least bit attractive, however about 2 months ago I was involved in a 3-some and in the heat of watching the other mf going at it was asked to take him from behind and did it. I have always enjoyed a little ass play with the ladies and later on let him get behind me while I was enjoying giving a little slit licking, and let me say I loved it.
So what had perplexed me is afterward I still was not attracted to him or any other man, but I look forward to my next chance to get to do a little MMF.
What do you think, cause I'm confused??????
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06-14-2002, 11:07 AM
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This is one of those deals where it couldve been just the heat of the moment that made you do it,or you could just have a little bisexual in you(pardon the pun). If,however, you say you're not turned on by men at all,and it's true, then you're probably straight and it was a one-time deal. Either way, it's not the end of the world if you enjoy boys every now and then.
I'd do it again if I were you, and let it happen as it happens. Just besafe and wear condoms, and make him do the same..
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06-14-2002, 11:10 AM
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always- always safe, but thanks for the advice
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06-14-2002, 12:27 PM
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dunno what it means, either.
i've been happily straight, and have never been intimate with a man, but occasionally i'll fantasize about it... had a g-f who'd whip out the anal dildo and use it on me, and we'd pretend it was the real deal... but the reality of it doesn't turn me on much... though if it was in the circumstances you described... don't know if i'd be able to say no.
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06-14-2002, 01:08 PM
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Well I think many people have the ability to be fairly open when actually confronted with new sexual situations....I think if at the moment you are turned on and it feels right and everyone is systems go then you should not have any reason to not participate in things that bring you pleasure. Of course barring any acts where anyone is truly traumatized.
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06-14-2002, 01:22 PM
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Thanks Lilith, once again I think the ingrained taboo of anal sex of any kind can't help but rear its head. But I have to say that if the chance again represents itself I know I wont decline.
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06-14-2002, 01:28 PM
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I'm strictly hetrosexual;besides;having a spastic colon & ulcerative
colitus;most of my life;no one is sticking anything up my rear end.
Having a sigmoidoscopy or colonoscopy is enough for me! Irish
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06-14-2002, 04:57 PM
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dont worry as you say u arent attracted to men then
u are most likely not gay or bi just keep your self open
to the posabilaty sexuality is not allways 100% one
or the other and dont let it mess u up as it did me
you had fun thats the main thing
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08-03-2002, 03:46 PM
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skip...
Sounds to me like you are just an open sexual being.. doesn't mean that you are "gay" or even "bi", I think in order to fall into that category you would have to be aware of being attracted to the same sex. Being open sexually means that when a sexual situation presents itself.. if it happens to turn you on in that moment.. that you are confident enough in yourself to enjoy it. Sounds to me like you are in a pretty good place in your sexuality. Not everyone could be so open to new experiences.
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08-03-2002, 06:13 PM
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as i said you just sound some one who is open
to new things you say you dont fancy guys
ok being gay and bi is about being atracted
to guys ignore lables just enjoy you sound as
if you know who you are
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08-05-2002, 11:51 PM
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Skip, I am sure that this has created conflicting emotions in you. The thing to remember, like everyone else has stated, is that you should do what you are comfortable with. Don't worry about what others think. I think Jennaflower said it best when she said that "you are just an open sexual being". There are too many hangups in this world already, relax and enjoy yourself *S*
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08-06-2002, 03:26 PM
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I dunno buddy, you've got me stumped. At least you had fun, though, and that's what really counts
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08-07-2002, 02:39 AM
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I can relate to that feeling, I have absolutely no interest in men as far as being on the emotional level I can be with a girl. However though I get extremly turned on by the thought of having sex with a man (or men  ).
On the down side when I climax thinking about men or in :cough: strange posistions I usually get a feeling of regret which is why I'll prolly never go at it with a guy.
But I can always fantasize 
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08-26-2002, 02:39 AM
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same boat
DTha7th im in the same boat as you.. i never could see myself with a guy but when i get really turned on i get in postions to where when im not turned on i wouldnt think of doing witch is why i wont be with a guy
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08-30-2002, 10:07 PM
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i could never have a relationship w/ a guy. and i never found guys attractive like women, but there is that sexual frenzy u get into, and if i was in a situation like that...hell id probably do the same. as long as u enjoyed it, i think you're fine
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