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Old 11-15-2007, 01:45 PM
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Menopause?

Guys read at ya own risk *L*....Girlie subject ahead

I'm starting to think i am heading this way.

Symptoms i've had include: Periods 3 times in 6 weeks, and they've ranged from 2 days to 6, mood swings, the sweats and flushes, nausea & very little interest in sex.

I've got a doctors appointment for Monday to try to get this sorted, cause i'm over it *L* If it aint menopause i wanna know what the hell is going on. Also booked in for the ohhhh so dreaded PAP smear (been way overdue for one...like hmmmm 10 yrs or so )

Just interested: Is anyone here going through it or already gone through it?
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Old 11-15-2007, 02:27 PM
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I HAVE BEEN regular like a clock and then ihavenn't had a cycle in 9 months..
sweats adn such i have been having. had to buy cottony jammmies for the sweats
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Old 11-15-2007, 07:01 PM
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Where to start?

Yes, been there done that.. still dealing.

Actually - I started perimenopause - which is premopause when I was in my early 30s. Typically women can experience this up to 10 years prior to every entering menopause. Hormonal fluctuations, unexplained weight gain, night sweats, hot flashes during the day, weird periods, etc.

http://www.webmd.com/menopause/guid...e-perimenopause

My hormones were way out of whack and my doc prescribed progesterone to alleviate the symptoms (which Cobalt rather enjoyed because my sex drive went into high gear). I was taking the natural trouches which worked wonderful (I wanted to stay away from synthetic) but then suddenly the insurance co. decided they weren't going to cover the script because it wasn't a 'standard' issue drug. It was made specifically for the level of progesterone that I needed according to my tests. Well, since I didn't want to and really couldn't take the synthetic type plus couldn't afford the natural without insurance, I stopped taking it and let nature take its course. I ended up having a hysterectomy about 5 years ago. That in itself didn't bother me (YAY no monthly curse), but I still had and have all the symptoms of the menopause since I still have the hormone fluctuations and they left my ovaries.

Sharni - it is a good thing that you go to get checked out. I was only a year over my dreaded poke & prod and when the lab looked at my innards they removed they found cancer.

My doc did tell me that not drinking, smoking, getting exercise and if needed an herbal supplement - black kohash - can alleviate some the crappy hot flashy stuff. I just take it as it is - it will end one day (hope, hope).

Let us know how it goes and if you have any questions that you want first hand experiences from let me know. I am not shy and will tell you more than you probably want to know about what I went thru and how I deal.

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Old 11-15-2007, 08:34 PM
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Thanks to you both *hugz*

Chey ~ I've had the hot fushes and dicky periods off and on for around 5 yrs (i had a test done and found i was premenopausal back then)...but they werent like it has been this last few weeks....especially the last week. To be honest its been rather nightmarish! I really REALLY hope this does not continue for 10 or so yrs *LOL*

The hot flushes are i swear like i'm burning, i break out in a sweat over my entire body, i feel very nauseous. If its a particulary long one i go outside to try to cool down & incase i do vomit. The longer ones usually result in me getting a headache, dont know if thats from stress or the actual process itself.

Nasty nasty shit it is *LOL*...Punish us with having to deal with periods every month, then having kids and now this shit...Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

RE: PAP smear

Yes i know i should have gone, but dammit if it isnt too easy to put off til next time. And being such a 'wonderful' thing to have done...NOT...really makes me want to try to squeeze it into my schedule
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Old 11-15-2007, 08:39 PM
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This is a very touchy subject for me.

I'm glad you are getting a physical. While it could be peri-menopause it could also be something else.

2 years ago I had some similar symptoms but also had uncontrollable bleeding (puddles upon standing) when those periods did come. I had a fibroid tumor the size of a basketball. I had it removed and all was well and then this past year I began to have some scary symptoms like heart palpitations and being seriously dizzy etc. Turns out they are hot flashes that are more intense due to the sudden hormonal disruption caused by my surgery. They are horrible and my doctor did some bloodwork (and heart stuff) confirming I am indeed heading into menopause. I'm having issues with it as I am also having my last birthday this year (39).
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Old 11-15-2007, 08:50 PM
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I'm glad you are getting a physical. While it could be peri-menopause it could also be something else.

Its the 'something else' that is motivating me to get looked at. There is cancer everywhere through my family, and quite frankly that scares me. Though being as the last test i had done had me on the verge of menopause, i'm SO hoping this is what the problem is (fingers crossed)
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Old 11-15-2007, 10:31 PM
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I hear ya both on this one. I also had fibroids, but they were small and only resulted in very painful periods. I was young according to the doc for all of this too Lil...

The sweats and almost vomiting and headaches (actually migraines) are also part of what I experienced due to being estrogen dominant. Sucks big time...

*crosses fingers also*

Keep us updated hun....
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