I was talking to a friend about this, and we were discussing how some of the guys (she's been with more than 1, I've only been with 1) in the past have cum too soon. Is there a way to stop this? Other than starting to talk about his mother in the shower I mean? Because, while that could be comical, it could also be dangerously traumatizing lol. I'm sure he wouldn't want to picture his mother every time he was having sex... that'd be just a little weird. Anyway, now that I've completely gone off-topic. Does anyone have any suggestions or tips?

Oh, just one last thing, if a guy hasnt done anything for a long time, is it possible to control when he cums? This was a discussion with another friend lol.

Thanks guys and gals!!! ^-^

Ironically, the best thing to do is NOT to think about baseball, mom, hot apple pie, or anything other than how good it feels. By focusing your concentration on exactly what you're doing, you will recognize that you are approaching the "point of no return" and be able to react before it's too late.

And there's always round two!

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My gf and I usually will stop the other,depending on who's ready to cum, and change positions......then "re-start" so to speak with different "contact points" between penis/vagina......we'll do this as often as we can but,some times we don't get past the first position as often as we'd like

like the above....I have found taking a breath works, i.e. the stop and start method.

Its ok to slow down for a second and regain a second wind so to speak. The pinch the tip method can be a decent training tool.

Having it be the first time for a guy in while can be a huge part of it as he may be out of practice in being able to control himself and that first time may be too much stimulation. However, as time and practice goes by, he can get more control over himself and the girl will be able to see the signs.

Most importantly, just communicate. I mean there are things u can do to slow down the orgasms without making it seem mechanical and interrupting the natural flow of things. Different things stimulate without overstimulating, so just talk about it outside of sex and during.

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Oki doke ^-^ sounds good to me. Thanks for the advice guys! I'll be sure to keep that in mind this weekend =) Think we can fit enough practice into 5 days? lol.

I would reach down and massage his balls til they relax and come down lower in their sack. He'll either spew or slow down.

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