Ok, now that Im proudly an official poster here at pixie..I'd like to use this as an outreach for a specific problem of mine...while this may have been more appropriate under the "advice" column, I feel I could post this here as well.....
After reading the post about "sex going wrong", I've been prompted to write about something I have dealt with since I've been sexually active....

When I was younger, I was sexually molested by a teacher of mine, he unhooked my bra, brushed up against me, and things like that, nothing TOO serious, but still serious enough to have charges put against him.....

I feel that this has affected the way I handle stimulus on my breasts and nipples....everytime my loving boyfriend tries to lick or feel my nipples, I can only stand it for a few mintues, even seconds and then I have to push him away b/c I feel uncomfortable, not exactly b/c of his technique, not at all..but that wierd feeling, b/c I was wronged those years ago....I feel that this could be my only reason behind feeling this, as I mean, I really do love my nipples played with..its just this harsh problem I deal with that interrupts this....

now I have come out to ask support and help from the pixie community, as you guys seem great and supportive....any ideas how I can get over this?

thank you

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Kristin