...getting a phone call from a long lost love who tells you that you have a child you didn't know about?

Sometimes I think about the women I was with when I was in college, before I got married. Protected sex wasn't something that I always practiced. While I have since tested myself to ensure that I don't have any STDs (thankfully, no), I sometimes wonder if I am the father of a child that I was never told about. Or, worse, got someone pregnant and she had an abortion without my knowledge.

This entire thing never used to bother me. Maybe it is that I am older and more mature now (???) that makes me think about it.

What say you, Pixie people? Do you have a similar paranoia? Or, are you someone who conceived a child but decided never to tell the father about it?

I understand your questions....I never was in that situation but I think it's something a lot of men who have been very sexually active may wonder.

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Can't say I've ever had to worry about such a thing, but I'm sure it happens a lot.

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Not for 25 years.

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LMAO :halo:

LOL You beat me to it, BIBI!

LMAO....being a woman, I don't have these questions. But I have male friends who *do* wonder....and worry. I think it's every man's worst nightmare that he meets his fully grown (unknown) son...when said son finds him to ask why he was never involved in his life.

As for me....I am obsessed about protected sex, as any woman of my generation is. I've only had unprotected with 2 men, one is Mr. Osuche. Because there were *two* I have, of course, had myself tested about 5 times for STDs and HIV....but thankfully I am clean. You never know, though....

<sigh>

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