Hi everyone. I am new to this lovely site but it looks as if there are lots of nice people out there who could help.
My problem is this. I'm an older man that has a good sex life, a happy and satisfied wife (and girl friend!) and I had expected to carry on for the foreseeable future. In the last few years I have been a little unlucky, and I have had a number of operations which have affected me. The two that have caused the most trouble are a prostate op and a spinal op. The prostate op stopped me actully cummin, I have an orgasm but nothing come out. The spinal op is the bugger. I cant get it hard enough for insertion and straight sex is almost immposible. I can masturbate with a limp dick and eventually after a lot of very hard work I wiil cum but it takes a long time.the bloody surgeons dont tell you this before only after when its too late . Oral sex is fine and I have had one or two lovely cums but mnot with my wife, she is relucctant to have oral sex lately even though we used to enjoy it
This is my question, can anyone seggest an answer to my problem, how can i get it hard enough to fuck (without using viagra as I have gone off all drugs since being ill after being overdosed) Any help will be appreciated. God bless you all.

There are two extras to the above message
I should have said that I used to have a good sex life but thats in the past.
I should also have mentioned that a spinal op can interfere with the nerves that send messages to the erection control, so no messages, no hard-on! So does anyone , especially a helpful sexy lady have any advice. LOL

There are several options open to you.

1. There are erectile inserts you can have put into your dick
to perform the function of the erectile tissue. Safe and it
means you can play for hours.

2. There is a vacuum pump which can "pull it up" followed by a rubber band to stop the blood departing the dick. Not a good
idea as cutting circulation can do huge damage. Going off to
sleep with it on may cause irrepairable damage.

3. Get over your chemical aversion and see a specialist for
a priapic drug.

4. Take up sniffing snuff mixed with starch. At least you'll
have a stiff upper lip.

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