dell, think about it like you are using your lips and tounge to read brail on very delicate paper. Feel every intricate detail about her lips and mouth. If she opens her mouth, open yours. If she gently reaches her tongue, do the same back. However, you do find some girls who come on strong and kiss hard. If she does that, go with it. Don't worry about the tongue dude. Just don't try to stick it all the way down her throat. For most women, a little tongue goes a long way.

Like Wally said, follow her lead. Just kick back and enjoy it man, and remember, you don't have to kiss like you never will again. If this is your first, you have thousands, maybe millions to go in your life. Enjoy them all dude.

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