Well I will do my best here to help you. About 5 years ago I met the greatest guy online. We hit it off right away, and our relationship was much like the one you describe. However, I was on the other side from you. I was hesistant to take things to the next level. We talked on the phone quite often, and things were great. I loved him. But I was holding back because during one of our long conversations, he commented on what his perfect woman would be. And what he described wasn't me, physically. We were so close, and both felt we were perfect for each other, but I knew better. I didn't want to ruin what we did have. Eventually our relationship fell off from what it was. That was about 3 and a half years ago. However, we still talk, we get along great, he's one of my closest friends. But we've never met, and I don't know if we ever will. I can't say whether ours is a success story or not, it's definitely not like Barb's, but I got a fantastic friend out of it. I don't know if her reason is the same as mine for holding back, but it's an idea. Best of luck to you with this though.

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I see your fantasy... you want to make it a reality

Are you in the mood to be subdued

You see these shackles
Baby I’m your slave
I’ll let you whip me if I misbehave

Tie me to the bedpost

I like it rough
cause I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all