Dude I feel your pains. I've had these online things several times and it's a crap shoot. I've gotten to a point I try not to take things for granted. If it seems too good to be true... it is. If they put obstacles in the way of getting together, there's a reason and usually NOT the one given. I don't want to rain on your parade but these are the things I've lived. I wish you the best. It works for some.... just hasn't for me yet.

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