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Oh just to add another 2 cents here. Remember that it is her body. And as such you have to take your time with it. It may take her months to get her mind ready for something that she may have reservations about. My first post still stands on it's own merits, but it is not something that you can "push" on her.

Put yourself in her shoes for a moment and you will understand why she is a bit reluctant.

Better still, remember back to your first sexual experience. How shit scared were you? How nervous were you of the unknown?

I think that most girls here will agree with me on this one; sex for guys is pretty straight forward. We get it up and stick it in, move it around a bit and that is it. Girls have a shit load of things that they have to go through before they will accept it. They have to get into the right frame of mind, their body has to get ready for it.

So if you are going to venture to new areas, then you have to understand her state of mind on things and why she may seem reluctant to try new things. I have given anal to girls before and as they were unsure of what to expect it was uncomfortable for them. I didn't force it. I made sure they were relaxed and they new what was going on. I took my time and we got there. It didn't hurt them, but because it was something that they had never tried before, it was uncomfortable.

Now if you do get that far and she tries it, don't expect her to be over the moon about it when it goes in. It may take the both of you many tries before she can enjoy it. Just take your time and don't be in a rush for her to do it.