I've held off adding my comments to this thread, mostly because others, especially the last 4 posters, have said what I feel as well or better than I can say... Wanda said it well, sites like this are seldom the problem with a couple, but often a symptom of bigger things wrong... great as Pixie's is, it's a poor substitute for the real love I share with the LOML, & if she's sending me an invite to bed, Pixie's can wait But it is a wonderful suppliment to my sex life, & I have truly learned some great things from all who share here... guess I'm just wishing it wouldn't come down to Nut having to choose one or the other, but since it did, he has made the right choice, & I would expect nothing less from him... he has always seemed to me to be the perfect gentleman, & I'm proud & glad to have made his aquaintance...

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