Wow, thanks you guys. I really appreciate all the advice. I thought I'd tell you that the other night, we made love again. And this time, I tried to focus more on her pleasure. This helped a lot because I got her to cum through intercourse(no easy task, but I'm getting better at finding out what does it for her). However, I didn't wear a condom(self control baby...), and I only came after she had(intentionally), when she was going down on me(due to lack of protection). So, whatever happened, I think I'm going to be alright now. And as for naughty nympho's suggestion....well, she has done a lot of roleplaying with me.....once, she dressed all in black with black makeup to satisfy my sweet tooth for goth girls. And once she wore a short plaid skirt, and knee high socks and pigtails for a schoolgirl fantasy I had. And once,(this one takes the cake), because I'm a huge star wars fan, last halloween, she dressed as princess leia, and totally...well, let's just say she sent my mind to a galaxy far, far away. And those things all helped I think. So again, thank you all so much for your suggestions. I'll keep trying to stay focused. I'll update you again soon. Later....DJ