Irish said:

"Randygirl(formal)---If I read; your reply right;you think that masturbating to a magazine or picture is cheating."
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Actually I'm saying just the opposite.

I don't happen to think masturbating to a magazine, picture or anything else is cheating. I also don't happen to think PM's are cheating nor is cybersex. It's personal yes, but it isn't cheating in the way I define the word.

Sometimes two people meet and marry and need different kinds or types of stimulation. A place like this where you can joke, tease, and make friends with people who on a whole are very sexual beings doesn't mean you are having an affair with those people....innuendo and flirting here are not the same as sex and sometimes it's what keeps the libido going at home.

Sorry this got so long...it isn't my thread and I don't want to hog it.

I just wouldn't want someone to judge the whole place just by the fact that many of the topics are sex related. There are many MORE fun things and people here too...