what constitutes cheating... man, that one has been discussed in at least two or three threads around here before (some very interesting points of view I must add)...

I am not sure that chatting on-line or looking at magazines (etc) would be considered cheating...

But, if it is something that your partner has made clear that they do not like AND you agreed not to do it, but continue to do it... then it is a violation of trust. And without trust there can be no good relationship!

If your partner is up front about it, and you do not like it, then it is just time to sit down have that long talk and figure out how the relationship is going to proceed... is this enough for you to move on? or is this something that you are willing to tolerate? if you are willing to move on, is it something that your partner will stop to keep you around? or will they let you go?

[hmm, feeling the soap-box which I have no right to be standing on creaking below me... stepping off now]

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