I just want to add a reason or two why I have the views that I do.

For many years I've known several men who were AWFUL to their wives....

BUT they never cheated on them.

Those women were put down and humiliated at home....

but the husbands never cheated on them.

If it were ME in those womens shoes I would have WISHED for a kind husband and would have put up with cheating before I put up with what they did for so many years.

Yep again. I'm an odd duck with very odd views sometimes.