As for going down on women, I don't see how anyone could see it as 'dirty' or 'shameful' (disease and poor hygine aside)... as for taboo, who really cares? should society have such a stranglehold on you that it extends to your most private bedroom? At any rate, my experience is this... when I go down on a woman, she enjoys herself more... much more, when a woman enjoys sex, the favor is returned ten fold to the man... : )