Oh yes, one last thing. If you're a girl, Hon, be proud . You're a girl who has the strength to have already lived through one of the nastiest experiences the human animal ever has. You're a girl who has the strength to admit weaknesses, and ask for help. IF you're a girl, you're a damned special one. And may his friends forgive me, if all of that makes you a girl.....there's a man I wish very much had been more of a girl not so long ago.

Gotta go wipe the tears off my comp before it fries now.

Be well, Larry. Be as well as you can right now.

G