well I have several (hehehe I won't be really bad and tellyou how many ) I would say the main thing is look for a size that you will be comfortable with and feel the texture to see if it feels pleasurable to you. Another way to go is to buy one that comes with different sleeves so that you have varying lengths and textures all in one handy box......
Hope that helps

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