Considering really good foreplay is a given, I would say appealing to her mind and emotions are a key ingredient. If a man can touch my heart and make me believe that I am wanted and beautiful then he has won half the battle right there.

Yes kissing, touching her face, looking into her eyes. Those are all very important.

Also, don't be threatened by sex toys. Learn how to use a dildo on your woman while licking her clit.

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