Excuse me if i sound mean when i say this but, speaking as a woman near your age.... no wonder you are having no luck with that attitude. Sometimes we like to be romanced, and not for the point of you trying to get into our pants. You are still young there is plenty of time left. Why do you think everything has to happen now? I mean a turkey will never cook if you keep openind the oven door. What i'm trying to say is maybe you should look into being friends first that is what the most incredible relationships are built on. If you are ment to be romantically it will happen, sometimes you do have to wait for the good.

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