I have always hated marathon sex sessions, frankly. A series over the course of the day is better, and I have multiple orgasms per day, only during actual sexual activity can I have multiples, and I have them in a series (I call them aftershocks ), and then I'm done. If the guy has to keep going much past that, I get to a point where I'm bored and just trying to get him off so I can quit. That's a really yucky feeling.

I don't understand the attraction, frankly. Had an ex that just wanted to do oral on me for... hours. I no longer have any desire for oral at all. Seriously, each person is different. If you are satisfied, why do you need something that makes other people happy? Where's the guarantee it will make you happy?

Some women want to fuck for hours. I find that boring, irritating, and unsatisfying. Some women need to orgasm multiple times. Some are perfectly satisfied with once. Who are you worried about performing for? You are certainly not going to orgasm multiple times if you are expected to, that's not him caring about your needs, that's him expecting you to validate him as a man with your body- like it or not.

Sex is a natural, fun thing. Lose your expectations and prohibitions regarding it. Allow your body to guide you, it is the organ of your sexual pleasure, the guage by which to test it. Follow its guidance. Let it tell you when it is content and finished. Pushing it past that becomes performance, which involves expectation, which closes your mind and creates resentment. Over time, that resentment will remove the pleasure.

You are happy, you feel satiated and content, why fool with that??