LarryL you have become a wonderful part of Pixies ... you will always be welcome here (no matter how often or seldom you visit) ... I wish you the very best in life and hope that your wife is open to the wonderful changes that can be ahead for you both.... let us know sometime how it's going ... in the meantime, of course you are someone who deserves love .... you are a fine and caring man, a dang sexy hippie!