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Originally posted by JAG2888
While spending a great deal of time counseling individuals, I found that while many get along great with the opposite sex, it is a very special bond that women have, the passion, heart and love that they seem to hold for one another (no not the girl in the office that drives you nuts) but the individual that always has the smile, listening ear, shoulder to hold the tears of pain, that it seems that no man really understands. It is a very special relationship. It is closer than sisters, and deeper than friends. It is something I have found to be very special and endearing of ladies. Including my soul mate, lover, friend and loving spouse. It, to me, is something so increible about women. Just a thought.

To add my two cents, the kind of relationship you describe sounds exactly like the relationship I have with my sister and my mother....... yes it is a special kind of bond, but then my relationship with my lover is also a special and unique bond, and one of the things that's most exciting about that relationship is that it is so different from the one I have with my close family.......after all, why would I need that kind of bond from someone else when I have such a good one with my female relatives already?

May I also suggest that no-one can 'please' someone else, or 'make someone else happy' - it is YOU who makes you happy, and that's achieved by being true to yourself and being true to your desires.......if your desire is for a sexual relationship with another woman, then that is what will make you happy. On the other hand, for me, for example, having a happy, harmonious and tender relationship with a man (which I hope will result in our having children in a few years time) is what makes me happy.

We're all different, so it's very difficult to generalise the way you have.