I think that the title is a bit of a red rag.

I wouldn't beat yourself up over this supposed flaw in the male psyche. The responses seem to suggest that the connection between heterosexuals is the most fundamental, it can demonstrate the essence of our existence. It's just not something that we talk about or need counselling over. It's not something we need to know what we feel about it.

When we need to know or analyse what we feel about things, then I agree that women are probably best placed to discuss the issue. Usually because most of the guys have buggered off to do something that interests them (doesn't embarass them).

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Vigil, if you were my husband, I would give you poison.

Madam, if you were my wife, I would take it.