I have watched this thead wih a lot if interest, as I love sex with men and with women. But the two are not the same or even at all interchangable!
The thread has changed from what I thought was a purely sexual question to a discussion about emotional relationships.
My deepest emotional relationships are with other women. I was married once and it wa a horrible experience for me, and yes, I know the biggest part of the problem was that he was a rat prick bastard, but I still bond emotionally with women far better than with men.
I have male friends, and one man in parrticular who is deeply ingrained into my life, emotionally and sexually, but I would be completely lost without Leigh.
Sexually, sex with other women so different as to make any comparison nearly worthless.
Other than the huge difference in the actual act of sex, the softness, the sense of exploration, the sense of sharing that is usually lacking for me in sex with men, there is an additional emotional bond that is FOR ME only present with another woman.
Maybe that is the definition of lesbianism?
But when I am not interested in emotion, when I only want the intensity of orgasm, the ovewhelming rush of physical pleasure, and nothing else, I find a man.
Maybe two.
At the same time.

BiSexually,

Wanda

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"I wondered, am I a lesbian, am I straight, or bisexual? Then I realized that I am just a slut.
So where's MY parade?"

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