Cunning: sounds just about right...I've got a bit of experience, but honestly I've never dated anyone who I've got to have sex with this much.... And he hasn't either. and I remeber that it took me a LONG time to be able to cum infront of someone, Its getting better...and at least now I know that its not just him. And yes...the more expression, the better he does we always have some light.

Aqua: I agree too! I am pretty sure its perf. anxiety. If it continues much longer (its only been about 6 weeks since we started having sex) I might suggest it. I don't know how he'd react to therapy :S We're going to try a change of scenery this weekend- which seems to help...maybe I can just "suprise" it out of him.

fussy: gotta rule out meds...that was my first thought knows that some SSRs (depression) cause major delay. But he's med free.

And its great to be back. I feel better already!