When you use phrases like "lack the ability" and "unable to compete" one might get the impression that a physical problem makes sex impossible for you.Checked your profile.Lets see,you are 20 years old,so whats the problem? There is really no need to rush into anything you are not ready for.It is a good time in your life to cultivate friends of both sexes and enjoy their company.Relax, you are not gay.At best you are bi curious. There is nothing wrong with that.

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Sex is one of nine reasons for reincarnation.The other eight are unimportant...Henry Miller