instead of starting a new thread i just bumped this one to let ya'll know i did it. last week, on wednesday, after the rug rat went down for the night, i stood there with sweaty palms, red face and shuffling feet and said,"so i found this erotic web site, this forum, where people post pictures and chat and tell stories. i was too embarrassed to tell before but there it is. whachya think?" "really?", he asks, "is that where you got those dirty jokes you told me?" "guilty," i say.

so we talked about what this place was like for a while and i told him how normal and nice the people are (we'll most of them anyway, lol). well, long story short, he's fine with it (i knew he would be). there are a few rules of course, but after i showed him some stories and pictures, he saw how it could be fun. he probably won't join, though. it's not his bag, baby. but he wants me to share whatever i want to with him. he also reminded me how long we've know each other and everthing we've been through together and told me it was silly to be embarrased (i knew this but it's easier said than done. i just wanted to tell you guys and thank you for the advice. especially those of you who PMed me. you were very supportive and i appreciate it more than i can say.

<------wipes hand across forehead
whoooooooo-hoooooooo, do i fell better now

ps: he said that Mistress_Perverta sounded like a real nut job but he wouldn't have minded relieving her of a few hundred bucks, (lmao)