When I first found a bulletin board such as this, I hadn't told my husband, either. What led me to the BB was the erotic stories I had found at that first site. More than anything, I was embarrassed about what he might think. He was way cool about it, though. That was about 3 and a half years ago now, and honestly, I can't recall how I let it out.

I would suggest that you trust your instincts on how he might react to it. If you think he'll be upset, maybe hold off a bit, and just drop little hints. If it's more that you are afraid of how embarrassing it might be to tell him, perhaps "accidently" leave the window open when you go somewhere, and know he'll be home alone.

Hope all works out well.

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