Lilith,

I find it useful to avoid reading too much into what others say. I have found that an unconvoluted interpretation of what people say commonly exposes the greatest meaning. People usually say what they mean. There are, of course, exceptions to the rule, but they are the exceptions, not the rule. My experience, of course, your mileage may differ.

As for PantyFanatic’s extremely personal feelings; I presume that they are as important to him as are the interior experiences of anyone. It was the external statements I found engaging.

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Eudaimonia