i may be new here but i am going through a divorce at the moment and it is getting messy. Belive me that the best thing you can do for them is to just be an ear for them to bend when they need it.

And be a friend. The worst thing that you can do is offer advice because if you say to do sommat and it dont work it will come back and hit you in the ass.

Just be there for both of them Dont offer any advice regarding the situation but listen to them both. You will find that the problems that they come to you with they already know the answers to and just want to vocalise it.

Its gonna be hard for them and you but probiding you never leave them they will both thank you in the end for it.

Mayhem