((((((Gilly))))))

It gets tougher before it gets better. I know that isn't what you want to hear, but it's sad and true. Hang in there hun. You're a good friend to both and this is gonna be a tough ride for all involved! Do what you can to be there for both parties, and try and keep in mind that "he said/she said" shouldn't come between you and your hubby! As time goes on it will be like climbing a steep hill. But when you all get to the pinacle and look back...you'll be able to sigh a sigh of relief that you all made it to the top and now comes the easy part.

Hang in there hun...and vent here or PM me if/whenever you need a shoulder!

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