I'm a male, but I do experience it a lot! My girlfriend and I are both bi and I'm also a crossdresser. She loves to do me with her strap on when I'm all dressed up and in my feminine mode! I love it, too.

She like the feeling of having that type of power over me and she gets off hearing me moan with pleasure like a slut in heat. Hhhh...I guess that's what I am when she's fucking me!

But then, being bi and a fem bottom with men, I've also experienced the real thing many times and I have to say that even though the strap on feels great, it doesn't come close to the real thing!